Life is Short, Have a Bucket

On the 10th anniversary of 9/11, we think about the tragedy of the event...  how horrific it was to lose all those people... all the brave men and women that died to rescue survivors.  We also look at our own mortality, and realize that we have become complacent in our own lives... we haven't loved enough, lived enough, and done all the things we wanted to do yet.  We remember that life is short, that everyday is a gift, and there are no guarantees.

When is the last time you looked at your life with a magnifying glass and asked yourself, 'what do I want?'  It's so easy to get caught up in serving others at work, at home with family and kids, and often forget about the most important person in your life... YOU!  ...and probably have never thought about the things, no matter how off the wall it is... things you've always wanted to do, but haven't yet?   Got an answer?  Then, go do it... solo or share your experience with family, or close friends.

I've kicked around things in my head for years about things I want to do in life, I finally started a bucket list of my own.  ::Check it out here::

What is it that you want to do before it's all said and done?  Have you made that list?  The list of things you want to do before taking a dirt nap?  There are no guarantees for tomorrow... Get busy, and live.

¿Donde Esta Todd?

I ask myself that too sometimes... As a traveling radio guy, you probably thought I ran off to another circus somewhere.  I'm proud to say, that I'm still in the Ft. Myers three ring radio circus and rockin' it!  Here's what I've been up to lately the past month since I blogged last:

Stealing parking spots at concerts...

Making funny faces....

(Trying to) Avoiding speed traps...

Having (adult) beverages with good friends...

 ...and enjoying trips to Walmart with my family...

So, as you can see, I've been pretty tied up... but good news is I have lots of blog ideas ready to go for your reading enjoyment coming soon.

My Buzz (Cut) Is Fading

Me in 1994

Male pattern baldness is a cruel joke given to us by our parents. There is no cure for it, and there is no way to naturally  change it.  I used to have a TON of thick, curly hair, but at 18, and it seemed like it all fell out at once.  It didn't really bother my too much since I wore a ball cap everywhere; not to cover it up, but because working in radio really doesn't have a dress code and it was comfortable.

As I got older, it was time to grow up and lose the hat, and I had figure out what to do with my (lack of) hair.  I buzzed my head with clippers with the '#1' guard on it.  Hey! It was a big step for me!  That was 2007.  My hair continues to thin out and I'm at another cross roads: Is it time to just shave it all with a razor?  

Good Grief!

A couple of 'bald brothers' at work do it, and it looks good on them... but I'm hesitant to do it....and not because I'm holding on to what's left... well, that's a small piece of it, but mostly it's because I have this odd-shaped, Charlie Brown-sized head.   It's big!  What is my big ol' noggin gonna look like without any hair on it?  So I started Google-ing how to shave my head, and came across a few videos that wouldn't work, but I was happy to find a some cool products for those follically challenged.

Maybe I will shave it all, maybe not... but if I do go all the way, I want to change my name to Kojak!

Who Loves Ya Baby?

Caution When Cruising

You could see it in the other parents' eyes... that the 'relaxing vacation' on a cruise ship with their kids... wasn't going to be so relaxing.

My wife and I decided to take a week on a Carnival Cruise with all three kids in tow. Trale 9, Mason 6, and Kyli 22 months. We knew ahead that we would have to tow Kyli everywhere we went because she was under two years old. The age threshold for the Carnival Kids Camp is 2 and up. So for parts of the day, Trale and Mason got to hang out with other kids for some fun activities and have a vacation too away from Mom and Dad!

Anybody with young children knows how easy it is for them to get bored even minutes after doing something fun. Being stuck on a boat, stuffed in a small cabins often sparked the 'bored' phrase more than I wanted to hear. Having to tote a little one around too made it difficult to see any of the adult sit down events which also provoked a 'bored' from me too from time to time.

In that water at the
Pirate Ship Excursion

The excursions turned out to be a nice release from the cruise ship doldrums. Getting to visit Grand Cayman and Mexico was a real treat, but I wanted to spend more time on land seeing the sights. You were whisked away for the excursion as soon as you stepped off the boat, by the time you returned, there was no time left to really experience the true culture of the town and you end up stuck in the port tourist traps with shops and restaurants I can visit anytime back home.

A picture of one of the pics snapped

At every turn, somebody from the ship was taking our picture... even before we took one step onto the ship, we were pulled over and our picture taken. Of course, the cruise ship wants you to buy the picture later for $20!! When we got off the boat, a picture snapped... as we were eating...SNAP... outside on the deck. 'CLICK'...walking back to the ship all sweaty and nasty from the excursion....SNNNAAPPP! I think our picture was taken more times than if we were walking into a bank to rob it.

We did have some fun on the boat, but there were just too many little things that overshadowed the great stuff on board: Cabins that were too hot, spaghetti at the Mexico excursion, too little time at port, no daycare for little babies, $6+ Beer...oh and all the damn pictures... It was just too much.

Me with Nacho and Pancho

There's a towel monkey in our room!

Not saying, not to take a cruise, because for the most part, this trip was a good time.  But for what it's worth...here's my two cents: If you want to see the world and cruise, do it with older children.  Look for cruises that allow more time at port to get the most out of the towns you are visiting, read reviews of the excursions before booking... and don't jump off the boat, even if you really want to.

Click here to see more pics from the trip!

Brain Power! Stay Creative!

It's tough at times for me to free my mind of clutter so I can think clearly and stir up with new, creative ideas. If you use your brain squash between your ears a lot, then this is a nice little exercise with tips on staying creative and moving forward.